radical re/membering
Precious. Unique. Intimate. Raw.
Because you are rare.
rare.
A Sacred Partnership.
The inner work and the outer building, held as one journey.
I tend the death, the grief, the liminal — and I build the website, the offer, the launch. The dissolution and the making. Most people hand you one. I hold the whole arc.
For women of depth and devotion — crossing a threshold in life or work, with something of their own to create.
The passage we walk
Death — the old self, the old identity, allowed to dissolve.
Grief — staying with what's ending. No rushing. No fixing.
Liminal — the fertile void. The sacred wobble.
Rebirth — the new octave, taking form.
Building — brand, website, words, launch. The aligned self, made visible.
Your Guide
I'm Carolynë. Poet, threshold-tender, business midwife. Two decades in the healing work — the last years walking women through this exact crossing, from beginning to end.
I became a mother as my mother was dying. Two thresholds at once. Then everything came at once: her death, my daughter's birth, my marriage ending, my business dissolving. I stayed in the liminal for three years. Not by choice, because the threshold asked for it.
I know this ground in my body. Not from books.
And I'm writing to you from the other side of it. A home I love, a forest at the edge of it, a life that finally holds me. I didn't just survive the crossing. I arrived. That's what I hold for you, not a theory of the descent, but the whole passage and the landing.
What you receive
Weekly sessions, just us. Voice access between them. I'm with you across the whole crossing, not only in the hour.
The sacred — shadow, death and rebirth, grief tended, the liminal held, sacred witness.
The discovery — your voice, your message, who you're here to serve.
The creation — I build it with you and for you. Website, sales pages, emails, systems, launch. I hold space, and I make shit happen.
What a month looks like
We meet weekly. 90 minutes, deep, just us, live, wherever you are in the world.
In session, we work with whatever the crossing asks for. Embodiment practices and meditation to bring you back into your body. Journal prompts and questions that open what's underneath. Shadow work. Mentoring for the road ahead. Discovering your desires, your dreams, whatever it is that's calling you. And then the doing. The words written. The page built. The launch mapped. The logistics handled.
Between sessions, I'm a voice note away. When something moves in you at dawn, or the fear rises the moment before you hit publish, you don't hold it alone for a week. You reach me, and I meet you there.
One week we sit in the grief. The next, we shape the words for your sales page. The sacred and the practical, braided, because in your life they were never two separate things.
No fixed curriculum. My expertise instead. I know how a crossing moves, in my own body and from walking women through theirs. We follow what's alive, in the order your threshold asks for: descent, liminal, rebuild. I hold the map so you don't have to.
This is for you if
You're at a threshold — grief, divorce, rebirth, emergence.
You're caught between what wants to be born and being able to birth it.
You're done forcing it.
You want to build from your center.
The Investment.
€3,500 per month
Or spread gently over a year. See Ways to pay below.
This work moves at the pace of a real crossing. So you choose the depth of the container.
Three months — a season.
One threshold, fully met. The descent, the grief, the first turn toward rebirth. For the woman who knows which passage she's in and wants to be held through it.
Six months — the full arc.
Death through to building. We move through the whole passage and bring the new thing into form — the offer, the site, the words, the launch. For the woman crossing and creating at once.
Nine months — a gestation.
Conception to birth. The deepest container: the old life dissolved, the new one carried to term and delivered whole. For the woman re/membering an entirely new octave of her life and her work.
We begin with a conversation to feel which depth is yours.
Ways to pay
Pay month to month through your container — or spread the full investment gently across up to a year, at a monthly amount you can hold. We'll find the shape that fits your life in our first conversation.
Three months — €875/month for 12 months
Six months — €1,750/month for 12 months
Nine months — €2,625/month for 12 months
In person. Intensive.
Some crossings don't want months. They want depth, now.
Intensive days and weekends, available in person, on my home ground in Ibiza, at your place, or online. The shape, the length, the investment, all designed together. Co-created to fit the crossing you're in.
This is the whole arc, concentrated. Grief, shadow, vision, the writing, the building. Just us, all the way in, until something moves.
Available on its own, or as a deepening inside rare.
This asks of you
Commitment. Trust — in me, in yourself, in the fertile void. The willingness to let parts of you die. Devotion to yourself.
A fuck yes to wealth that comes from being wholly yourself.
“Carolynë is my business midwife and has been with me every step of the way to support me in birthing my business. I love working with Carolynë and highly recommend her if you are looking for someone to support and assist you in bringing your business into its next octave!”
— Sarah Hoskin, The Sacred Beyond“Carolynë is a grounded, intuitive and skilled healer. Her capacity is deeply nourished through her shamanic roots growing up in Brazil, and refined with her grounded communication and thorough understanding of nourishment on all levels of body, heart, and soul.”
— Katherine Zorensky"Carolynë, you are indeed a death doula. I have experienced many healing sessions throughout my life, and nobody has ever taken me and held me in my depth as you have. Your shared wisdom is so needed. The messages received were spot on and have helped me so much."
— Sarah, Sacred Ink“You are an extraordinary midwife, co-creator, implementer, patient guide and support. That I get to do this with you and not alone is such a gift.”
— Cynthia Re/membering is how we return to wholeness.
— Carolynë Lumi
Not ready to work together? Stay close to my sharings.
Naked Musings About love and death and everything in between. About dying as we live. About grief as a companion. About the liminal spaces where we dissolve and re-member.
Poetry. Prose. Raw transmissions.
This is my humble writer/poet self — raw, unfiltered, exploring what it means to live fully — to feel it all, to soften into what is, to love deeply and BE alive in a body, in love, in loss, in the messy, in the beauty found in chaos, in the sacred ordinary.
Being divine and being human.